I am not complaining

that people don't understand me. But somehow it is all coming to a point where I am held responsible for all the mess. I am not the kind of person who would deny the responsibility but what I would like to see is a shared sense of improvement, a solution carved out from a situation, in a collaborative manner rather than throwing all the blame on a single person.

Either it be me or someone else, it won't do no good to the other person, as he or she never accepted their mistake, loosing the chance to recover/learn.